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elainegrey: Inspired by Grypping/gripping beast styles from Nordic cultures (Default)
Thursday, July 8th, 2010 07:07 am
Hi Mom!

We had a great time with [SIL] and the kids last night. After dinner, D--- and i were able to pet Mr M briefly, and then D--- wanted to play cat. So i got my raisin nut mix down as "cat" treats and the real cat treats, and Mr M came to the sound of the treat bag. I alternated between treats for Mr M and for D--- for a bit, amusing them both. Greycie Loo watched from the far end of the hall with an air of suspicion. Then Z--- and D--- started playing cat together, with Z--- developing all sorts of complicated "cat" obstacle courses for D---: jump over the Roomba, clim down the cat scratching ramp, jump up on the bench, get the mouse.... Quite the complicated little drama.

They're off to Canada today to see the placing of the stone on [SIL}]'s grandfather's grave.

Our fourth was good for us: i got some needed rest, and Christine and i began exercising. We dealt with some household details, but one involved lifting the bed, and i think Christine pulled her back. The "fall back" place where i thought we could get rid of our old shelves is having to move locations, so i'm not sure when the old shelves will leave the house. Glad to hear there was a pleasant gather for you all. I know i can't complain about our weather: it was warm enough for it to be summer, and the western part of the apartment warmed up a great deal by Monday afternoon. By that time, though, outside was quite pleasant. Yesterday evening i dried my hair in the sun.

Work has been OK since i returned: the reorganization was not too dramatic, and i'm still comfortably reporting to my old boss. I am perhaps too comfortable with that, as the anxiety at the thought of that changing illustrates. I did get all the lingering performance appraisals done.

I wonder if you could tell me where and when [grandmother] and [grandfather] married, by the way. I was looking at their side of the family tree and realized i didn't have those simple details. I've found a 1910 census with [greatgrandfather] and [greatgrandmother] living in Bay Hundred, Talbot, Maryland by the way. I'll keep looking in this database for earlier information!

With love,

[me]
elainegrey: Inspired by Grypping/gripping beast styles from Nordic cultures (Default)
Sunday, June 13th, 2010 06:01 am
The living room is quite chill, as the sliding deck doors allow for much air exchange overnight. The east rooms are pleasant, but not as cool as outside yet. The lowest temperature has been just in the past hour.

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Email to MS

Happy belated birthday! I'm feeling more and more resistant towards interacting on Facebook these days. I still love getting the news of folks' day to day lives (although i fail to know what to share, myself), but i distrust the business. There was another technology to communicate with folks -- smoke signals? no.... telegraph?... E-mail! It's not the same as the hand written letters we exchanged while you were in the Czech republic and i was studying for my quals, but my penmanship has gone south since spending so much time at a keyboard.

I have a peculiarly complete memory of the desk and room i wrote you from, the cool dim light in the narrow little room which was my space in the apartment i shared with the Greek-American woman and her Roman boyfriend. Thinking of writing you letters brings back a flood of sense-complete memories of that space. I tend to spend my mornings now journalling, pseudonymously on the web, tracking irritations to my flaky immune system and giving myself pep talks as i try to manage depression without meds. My spiritual life goes through shifts and turns, but the practice of Friends has been well suited for me. One year was filled with rich meditation with visions of healing as being broken: instead of scabbing and scarring over the wounds, letting the wounds heal in such a way that life and love stream through. I remain slightly uncomfortable with this understanding as i resist the notion that one needs to be wounded: it becomes a fulcrum on which oppressive theologies can be levered. Yet the truth of my experience, of opening those wounds up and letting myself feel more flow, is convincing. Christine and i were talking one day about my discomfort with the entire spectrum of labels: theist, deist, agnostic, atheist. She sees me acting as an experimentalist, testing practice to see how it affects my life.

Today's a Meeting for Business day, one of the practices that is core, and it will be a hot day to sit and be open. I'm off to North Carolina on the 19th, fortunate a work conference takes me to visit family, just as my brother's work had him in town so we could have dinner with him on Friday night.

I hope you are thriving, and do keep sharing the photos of your and A----'s adventures! I do appreciate them.


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I chose not to take the antihistamine last night,itchy details )

I haven't been that hungry lately. While on vacation i started the day with a slice of toasted and buttered gluten free bread made by L. I'd have an egg, my usual breakfast, later in the day (and each day of vacation, i added more to it). Chips or nuts while hiking or out, and then a dinner. Essentially i was skipping a meal. I did that on Friday, and i think i essentially did that yesterday as well. I can't blame the heat while we were up the coast: i was often cold. I suppose there's something to be said about my stress eating.
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